The library
Every week, birth through 12 months
22 original entries, each with a concrete task list grouped by category (night shift, feeding support, paperwork, visitors, gear, and taking care of her). Prefer a personalized page? Try the week checklist tool.
Weeks 0 to 6: the newborn stretch
Your job this week is logistics and a buffer, not opinions.
Week 1Home is louder and lonelier than the hospital at the same time.
Week 2The adrenaline from week one is gone; this is the real grind.
Week 3A growth spurt can make this week feel like a step backward.
Week 4The one-month checkup is a good moment to get everyone's questions answered at once.
Week 5An evening fussy stretch is common right now and usually passes.
Week 6The six-week postpartum visit is one of the most important appointments on this whole list.
Weeks 7 to 12: finding a rhythm
If parental leave is ending soon, this is the week to plan the handoff, not the week it happens.
Week 8The two-month checkup usually means the first real round of vaccines.
Week 9A second common growth spurt window can shake up the routine you just found.
Week 10If a return to work is close, this is the week to confirm the car seat is actually installed and inspected.
Week 11If leave is ending next week, this is the dry-run week.
Week 12The three-month mark is when a lot of families feel the newborn fog genuinely start to lift.
Months 4 to 12: past the newborn fog
Sleep patterns can shift noticeably around now, which trips up a lot of routines that were working.
Month 5A quieter logistics month; a good time to catch up on anything that slipped.
Month 6Solids often start around now, and that means new gear and new mess logistics.
Month 7Mobility is starting to change what "babyproofed" actually means.
Month 8This is a realistic month to double-check the car seat fits a bigger baby correctly.
Month 9The nine-month well visit is a common checkpoint for feeding, growth, and development questions together.
Month 10A good logistics month to start planning first-birthday details ahead of the rush.
Month 11A quieter month logistically; keep momentum on anything still open before the one-year mark.
Month 12The first birthday is a real logistics milestone too, not just a party.