Week-by-week library · 10 months old

Month 10: your checklist

Quick answer

What should I actually do at 10 months old?

A good logistics month to start planning first-birthday details ahead of the rush. 4 concrete tasks below, grouped by what they're for.

Last reviewed 2026-08-28 by First Dad Guide editorial team

What's going on this week

With cruising and standing often underway, this is more a household-logistics stretch (gates, guarding stairs, planning the first birthday) than a new-appointment month for most families.

Your checklist

Household & gear

  • Install stair or room gates now if cruising has started, ahead of an actual fall.
  • Start rough planning for a first birthday if you want one, since venues and dates fill up faster than you'd expect.

Appointments & paperwork

  • No standard well visit typically due; confirm your practice's schedule.

Partner care

  • Ten months in, exhaustion often becomes low-grade and easy to normalize; ask directly how she's actually doing, not just how the routine is going.

Sourced to

  • American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org)

Last reviewed by the First Dad Guide editorial team.

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